Tuesday, June 19, 2007

June 24




This coming Sunday is a busy one for us.


My daughter is going to a b'day party in the morning in the center of the city. We have to pick her up early from there and drive way north-west to my three kids' final swim lesson for this session.


After swimming, we are stopping in at my friend's father's 95th birthday party (he should be well).


After that we go home to prepare for my son's 12th b'day party, which is actually a sleepover for about a dozen or more boys. You can check in with me on Monday around noon and see if ALL my hair did not turn gray overnight!


And somewhere in that full day, we will go visit my parents...for it will be, G-d willing, their 51st wedding anniversary.


Last year, their 50th anniversary, was special -- with a celebratory dinner at an upscale fleishig/meat restaurant for family and close friends. People came in from the U.S. to help mark this wonderful occasion.


This year, their 51st anniversary will be special -- but low-key. There are no celebration plans that I know of. But my dear parents will be celebrating being together...for as I recently said, it has been a most difficult year or more with regards to my father's ill health. It has been terribly difficult on my mother, too, as she has to deal with the daily physical and mental and even emotional changes that my father goes through.


My parents take marriage very seriously and they are devoted to one another, having found their beshert in each other all those years ago...and marrying six weeks after meeting each other.


Compromise, picking one's arguments, and patience have been the key. There have been many physical and emotional hurdles to leap over throughout the past 51 years, but my parents keep doing so...hand in hand....together.


May they be blessed with many more happy, and G-d willing, healthy, years together, and may our family be able to mark each June 24th with a L'CHAIM!!

6 comments:

Ezzie said...

Wow. That's an amazing day... mazel tov, mazel tov, mazel tov!

Wendy said...

Congratulations! 51 years. That's wonderful.

I have a question for you - couldn't find your email... Do you know anything abut the Arrowsmith School? They're opening one in NJ and my sister is considering it for her daughter. She said to me, if only I knew someone in Toronto.... so I thought I'd ask you if you know anything about their reputation (she knows about their theory and methodology...) Thanks for any ideas! wscherer@gmail.com

Sharon from NY said...

Pearl- MAZEL TOV to your parents and to you!! May you all enjoy many more Happy, HEALTHY times together! From Marty and Me.

cruisin-mom said...

Pearl, congrats to mom and dad...that is wonderful. A beautiful post as always :)

Jewish Smörgåsbord said...

Pearl, what a wonderful day ahead of you - so many Simches in just one day! Mazel Tov!

torontopearl said...

Ezzie: thank you, thank you, thank you!

Wendy: thank you...on behalf of my folks. 51 years is a great track record.
Hope my suggestions re. Arrowsmith School are productive.

Sharon: Thanks to you and Marty for your good wishes.

CM: Thanks so much. "As always."

JS: It's important to have simchas in one life, and I welcome them. Thank you.