Monday, August 25, 2008

Hey, Can Someone Get My Friend Over Here a Cloud with a Silver Lining?

Some people have tzuris. And then there are some people who have T.Z.U.R.I.S.!

As is said in Jewish circles: "You shouldn't know from these things..."

Someone I know lost her father -- who was ill -- last October.

She lost her youngest brother -- who died suddenly, in his sleep -- this past May. She got up from shiva on a Thursday, had her eldest son's aufruf on Shabbos and his wedding the following Tuesday.

She lost her oldest brother -- who was ill -- today. That brother was buried today...on her birthday.

She lost an uncle in May. She lost her mother-in-law in June.

Can you imagine her poor mother, burying her husband, her eldest son and her youngest son within 10 months of each other? A family of five children has quickly dwindled down to three children. A family of three sons has become a family of one son.

Their mezuzot klafs have all been checked, but this family certainly needs a good turn, a silver -lined cloud to replace the dark one that's been hovering over their family for some time. May Hashem look down on them, decide they've suffered plenty and send some beautiful brachot their way...


cruisin-mom said...

Oh Pearl,that is more than any family should have to bear. No way to even make sense of it.

Shira Salamone said...

Oy, what is there to say except to hope that your friend and her family know no more sorrow?

the sabra said...


we need moshiach already! that is too too much!

The Babysitter said...

oysh, hope things get better for them.

rickismom said...

We don't know why G-d does these things. We have to trust and daven that it get better. We are in "transition" part of chavley moshiach, and I guess it is hard!
May this woman find the strenth and hope to go on.

A Living Nadneyda said...

We are good friends with a couple, and they both just lost their jobs, within a few days of one another. They weren't doing that well financially to begin with, either. It's much harder when so many bad things come at once; you begin to wonder whether Someone has it in for you, a horrible feeling.

May your friend and her family be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.